Random Thought

Because I am in some sort of bad migraine cycle, I haven't spent too much time on the computer.
But I've had this thought creep up on me more than once in the past week.  So I thought I'd share it and see what you think...

I find it interesting that sometimes, the very qualities that initially draw me to another person become the same qualities that grate on my very. last. nerve.

To clarify, I am not referring to my marriage at all.  I think it's sort of a given that the habits of your significant other switch from endearing to annoying and back again- but you just nag discuss them and you can usually find some sort of compromise.  Or you just give up and live with it.  Or divorce?  Whatever...

But it's somehow different with friendships.  I find that I can't always directly address whatever the problem area is.  And sometimes, I might dig and see if another friend notices the same thing...but if they don't, then I feel like I'm just being intolerant.

Is it just me?