June 1st of this year marked 7 years of marriage for Mike and I :)
I didn't talk about last Monday because we had a non-fun anniversary due to arguments that were serious but certainly not relationship-threatening. I chose NOT to write at the time because I didn't want to just rant and rave about disagreements that I knew we would work through. It's rare for me to "take the high road" that way but maybe after 7 years, I have learned something?
Our marriage has been blessed in many ways...really, our only downfall is financial matters and we are slowly wading our way to a better place with all of that. We have the support of our families, many wonderful friends and -not least of all- 2 beautiful children and the excitement of adding one more little one to our family. I truly feel that our relationship is made stronger by having so much support from those around us. At the same time, Mike & I truly like being together--we make each other laugh-- we are a good team most of the time-- we understand each other.
Since we have had children, whenever we have ever gone through times where we weren't seeing eye-to-eye, we only need to look at Michael and Liam to know that we are in the right marriage--that we belong together. Our children strengthened our bond in a good way. They give us the inspiration to not take each other for granted.
We also share the same basic values but have enough differences to keep things interesting. I love the way our relationship continues to grow. Of course, the exciting first moments of marriage are incredible. But I wouldn't trade that for what we have now...
1 comment:
This is a great post. It isn't easy, especially when you throw in work and children and the thousand other demands of daily life. But there are few things more inspiring to me than two people who WORK at it to make it WORK. Congrats on 7 years!
(And to maintain our parallel life status, Brett & I celebrate our 7 year anniversary on Sunday!)
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